The reality TV star Jessi Draper of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives is embroiled in a contentious divorce from Jordan Ngatikaura, marked by a failed attempt by Ngatikaura to obtain a temporary restraining order. The case highlights how legal tactics can be weaponized during high-profile separations.
Failed Restraining Order
On March 20th, Ngatikaura filed for the temporary restraining order just one day after initiating divorce proceedings against Draper, his wife of five years. Draper opposed the request, and it was subsequently denied by the court. The move suggests a strategic attempt to gain leverage in the divorce, with legal experts noting that such filings are sometimes fabricated to influence custody or financial settlements.
Foreshadowed Conflict
Draper herself predicted a difficult divorce process during season 4 of the show, fearing Ngatikaura’s potential for “spiteful” and “vindictive” behavior. She expressed concern that their prenup might be invalid, potentially exposing her to a harsher financial outcome. This foresight proved accurate, as Ngatikaura’s failed restraining order demonstrates an escalation of conflict.
Legal Tactics in High-Profile Divorces
Divorce litigator Yonatan S. Levoritz, founder of Levoritz Law Firm, explains that restraining orders can be misused to gain advantage in custody disputes or financial negotiations. While legitimate filings are reserved for cases of actual abuse or safety concerns, fabricated claims can be used as leverage to secure favorable outcomes – including custody, child access, or increased settlements.
“Some lawyers have clients fabricate stories to obtain restraining orders in order to increase their leverage in custody cases or to obtain additional funds, especially in high-profile divorces.”
Public Statements
Draper has not publicly commented on the divorce filing, while Ngatikaura framed the separation as a difficult but necessary step. He stated his priority is the well-being of their children and expressed a commitment to handling the process with kindness and respect.
The failed restraining order and Draper’s earlier concerns underscore the potential for legal maneuvering in celebrity divorces, where financial stakes and public perception play significant roles. The case raises questions about the integrity of legal proceedings when personal disputes become public spectacles.
